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	<title>Comments on: Should I Or Shouldn&#8217;t I?</title>
	<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/</link>
	<description>Blog-Fu for Prince William, Manassas and Manassas Park politics.</description>
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		<title>By: charles</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5305</link>
		<dc:creator>charles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Dec 2006 13:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5305</guid>
		<description>It's your life, Greg. I wouldn't do it, but then again I wouldn't have written the stuff you wrote about Dion either, so I wouldn't be in this position.  Having said what you said, I wouldn't want to have to clarify and explain it to the Blade and hope they would get it right.

If they asked me to clarify anything I had said in this discussion, I would be happy to do so, as long as I was allowed to tape the interview.  

So if you DO continue, make sure to get permission to put the entire thing on tape, so you can report what you said and have proof to back it up.  That's not because of who they are, I would recommend that for talking with ANY reporter.

In the end, I don't know if this would be more or less unpleasant than the lawsuit, but I believe it could be a similar experience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s your life, Greg. I wouldn&#8217;t do it, but then again I wouldn&#8217;t have written the stuff you wrote about Dion either, so I wouldn&#8217;t be in this position.  Having said what you said, I wouldn&#8217;t want to have to clarify and explain it to the Blade and hope they would get it right.</p>
<p>If they asked me to clarify anything I had said in this discussion, I would be happy to do so, as long as I was allowed to tape the interview.  </p>
<p>So if you DO continue, make sure to get permission to put the entire thing on tape, so you can report what you said and have proof to back it up.  That&#8217;s not because of who they are, I would recommend that for talking with ANY reporter.</p>
<p>In the end, I don&#8217;t know if this would be more or less unpleasant than the lawsuit, but I believe it could be a similar experience.</p>
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		<title>By: R.T. Molleur</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5298</link>
		<dc:creator>R.T. Molleur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Dec 2006 00:35:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5298</guid>
		<description>Greg:

I find it hard to believe that you can take on Chapman with so much glee and gusto, but you are way too scared of being interviewed by a friggin homo magazine.  What gives?  Can't take it?  All they are are libs for crying out loud.  You have the best political blog in NVA and now the Blade is going to write a hit piece about how chicken you are.  Take them on (not literally though).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greg:</p>
<p>I find it hard to believe that you can take on Chapman with so much glee and gusto, but you are way too scared of being interviewed by a friggin homo magazine.  What gives?  Can&#8217;t take it?  All they are are libs for crying out loud.  You have the best political blog in NVA and now the Blade is going to write a hit piece about how chicken you are.  Take them on (not literally though).</p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5294</link>
		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 19:47:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5294</guid>
		<description>Had to say --

Surprisingly, I DO know a woman and man who have stayed together for the kids.  He is gay (he doesn't date &#38; neither does she). 

And how do YOU even know that he revealed/acknowledged being gay before the marriage ended?  Maybe it ended due to something completely unrelated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Had to say &#8211;</p>
<p>Surprisingly, I DO know a woman and man who have stayed together for the kids.  He is gay (he doesn&#8217;t date &amp; neither does she). </p>
<p>And how do YOU even know that he revealed/acknowledged being gay before the marriage ended?  Maybe it ended due to something completely unrelated.</p>
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		<title>By: Diddio</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5292</link>
		<dc:creator>Diddio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 18:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5292</guid>
		<description>I feel sorry for the sufferers of the terrible disease known as homosexuality.  If we can put men in space, why can't we discover a cure for gay?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel sorry for the sufferers of the terrible disease known as homosexuality.  If we can put men in space, why can&#8217;t we discover a cure for gay?</p>
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		<title>By: Gurduloo</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5286</link>
		<dc:creator>Gurduloo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 14:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5286</guid>
		<description>Looks to me like you just responded to their questions right here.  I'm sure they'll feel free to print your comments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looks to me like you just responded to their questions right here.  I&#8217;m sure they&#8217;ll feel free to print your comments.</p>
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		<title>By: megan</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5285</link>
		<dc:creator>megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 13:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5285</guid>
		<description>Y'all are making so many assumptions my head is spinning. I know "fact" is a four letter word but you really don't need to be afraid of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Y&#8217;all are making so many assumptions my head is spinning. I know &#8220;fact&#8221; is a four letter word but you really don&#8217;t need to be afraid of it.</p>
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		<title>By: Had to Say</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5284</link>
		<dc:creator>Had to Say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 12:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5284</guid>
		<description>Greg,

Your best bet is sticking to your own blog.

To Anon- Maybe he wasn't the one that left the marriage, but do you honestly expect a woman to stay with a gay man? I certianly wouldn't, even for the children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greg,</p>
<p>Your best bet is sticking to your own blog.</p>
<p>To Anon- Maybe he wasn&#8217;t the one that left the marriage, but do you honestly expect a woman to stay with a gay man? I certianly wouldn&#8217;t, even for the children.</p>
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		<title>By: Not Jack Herrity</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5283</link>
		<dc:creator>Not Jack Herrity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 12:44:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5283</guid>
		<description>The Blade has never made a pretense of being fair or unbiased, so I think there is little chance you come out of this looking like anything but an assclown, to coin a Ben Tribbett phrase.  Look at the questions, for Pete's sake.  They're trying to trip you up.  Don't give them the satisfaction.

NJH</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Blade has never made a pretense of being fair or unbiased, so I think there is little chance you come out of this looking like anything but an assclown, to coin a Ben Tribbett phrase.  Look at the questions, for Pete&#8217;s sake.  They&#8217;re trying to trip you up.  Don&#8217;t give them the satisfaction.</p>
<p>NJH</p>
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		<title>By: Greg L</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5274</link>
		<dc:creator>Greg L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 02:05:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5274</guid>
		<description>Stay tuned, anon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stay tuned, anon.</p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5273</link>
		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 01:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5273</guid>
		<description>"leaving a marriage in order to pursue a gay lifestyle could be considered a bad thing"

You continue to allege this. What info do you have that this is indeed what transpired?  I presume you have some evidence that HE left the marriage - and that it was to "pursue" a gay lifestyle.  (I realize that he is IN a gay relationship, but that is not the same as LEAVING a marriage to engage in it.)

And I too would avoid the Blade.  Perhaps just "Thank you, but no.  Your reputation preceeds you."

Several writers there have been accused of taking bits and pieces of what was said and crafting it in to something wholly different than what was ever uttered.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;leaving a marriage in order to pursue a gay lifestyle could be considered a bad thing&#8221;</p>
<p>You continue to allege this. What info do you have that this is indeed what transpired?  I presume you have some evidence that HE left the marriage - and that it was to &#8220;pursue&#8221; a gay lifestyle.  (I realize that he is IN a gay relationship, but that is not the same as LEAVING a marriage to engage in it.)</p>
<p>And I too would avoid the Blade.  Perhaps just &#8220;Thank you, but no.  Your reputation preceeds you.&#8221;</p>
<p>Several writers there have been accused of taking bits and pieces of what was said and crafting it in to something wholly different than what was ever uttered.</p>
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		<title>By: James Young</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5272</link>
		<dc:creator>James Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 01:34:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5272</guid>
		<description>OK, I saw your original comment.  Good timing, I guess.  Feel free to delete my riposte.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, I saw your original comment.  Good timing, I guess.  Feel free to delete my riposte.</p>
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		<title>By: Greg L</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5270</link>
		<dc:creator>Greg L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 01:22:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5270</guid>
		<description>Six to three against, I guess that's pretty decisive.  But for the edification of our readers, here are some comments on their loaded questions:

Question one asks what the important information was that I conveyed, and apparently they never were able to understand how leaving a marriage in order to pursue a gay lifestyle could be considered a bad thing.  If they can't grasp that a marriage with children isn't something you throw away in order to be a practicing member of Equality Prince William, I guess there's not a lot they're going to learn from me.

Question two asks about the details about the comparative living arrangements of Mr. Dion and his ex-wife that I mentioned.  James Young got it -- that the question really is about whether the campaign is lying with it's frequent statements about how he lives in Lake Ridge with his two kids.  I still believe the Dion campaign is deliberately trying to mislead us about what's actually going on, and I hope they continue to get questioned on their campaign statements.  Kudos to James for cutting through the window dressing to see what was really goiing on with all of that.

Question three is a throwaway designed to give me an opportunity to stroke my ego by talking about how important I might be.  No dice. Just because the Washington Blade offers me the chance of talking about what a bigshot I supposedly think I am doesn't mean I'm interested in playing.

But it was really funny to get the request.  Is the weekly communist paper going to want to talk to me next?  I might answer them -- that would be hilarious -- especially if I can get Batson to collaborate with me on my responses.

Now I wonder what short response I can shoot back.  Suggestions?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Six to three against, I guess that&#8217;s pretty decisive.  But for the edification of our readers, here are some comments on their loaded questions:</p>
<p>Question one asks what the important information was that I conveyed, and apparently they never were able to understand how leaving a marriage in order to pursue a gay lifestyle could be considered a bad thing.  If they can&#8217;t grasp that a marriage with children isn&#8217;t something you throw away in order to be a practicing member of Equality Prince William, I guess there&#8217;s not a lot they&#8217;re going to learn from me.</p>
<p>Question two asks about the details about the comparative living arrangements of Mr. Dion and his ex-wife that I mentioned.  James Young got it &#8212; that the question really is about whether the campaign is lying with it&#8217;s frequent statements about how he lives in Lake Ridge with his two kids.  I still believe the Dion campaign is deliberately trying to mislead us about what&#8217;s actually going on, and I hope they continue to get questioned on their campaign statements.  Kudos to James for cutting through the window dressing to see what was really goiing on with all of that.</p>
<p>Question three is a throwaway designed to give me an opportunity to stroke my ego by talking about how important I might be.  No dice. Just because the Washington Blade offers me the chance of talking about what a bigshot I supposedly think I am doesn&#8217;t mean I&#8217;m interested in playing.</p>
<p>But it was really funny to get the request.  Is the weekly communist paper going to want to talk to me next?  I might answer them &#8212; that would be hilarious &#8212; especially if I can get Batson to collaborate with me on my responses.</p>
<p>Now I wonder what short response I can shoot back.  Suggestions?</p>
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		<title>By: R.T. Molleur</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5269</link>
		<dc:creator>R.T. Molleur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 00:30:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5269</guid>
		<description>Have them send you the questions beforehand and in writing.

Post them on the blog and then get our opinions.

If you called them or Dion for an interview, they'd want the questions in advance.

Don't runaway - they'd smear you as chicken.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have them send you the questions beforehand and in writing.</p>
<p>Post them on the blog and then get our opinions.</p>
<p>If you called them or Dion for an interview, they&#8217;d want the questions in advance.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t runaway - they&#8217;d smear you as chicken.</p>
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		<title>By: megan</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5268</link>
		<dc:creator>megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 00:13:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5268</guid>
		<description>Greg you probably will be made to look very bad to the readers.  You need to decide if that is a bad thing or a good thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greg you probably will be made to look very bad to the readers.  You need to decide if that is a bad thing or a good thing.</p>
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		<title>By: 10thdistrictrepublican</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5267</link>
		<dc:creator>10thdistrictrepublican</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 00:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5267</guid>
		<description>Stay away! These folks will take what you say and twist it according to their article.  Being interviewed for this particular newspaper is a no win situation for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stay away! These folks will take what you say and twist it according to their article.  Being interviewed for this particular newspaper is a no win situation for you.</p>
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		<title>By: MC</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5265</link>
		<dc:creator>MC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2006 23:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5265</guid>
		<description>Run away, Greg!  It doesn't matter what you say, cutting and pasting is very easy.  I doubt very much that they would take any of your criticism in the manner in which you mean it.  You agree, they will twist every word.  You already know they back Dion, whats the point?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Run away, Greg!  It doesn&#8217;t matter what you say, cutting and pasting is very easy.  I doubt very much that they would take any of your criticism in the manner in which you mean it.  You agree, they will twist every word.  You already know they back Dion, whats the point?</p>
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		<title>By: the_stenographer</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5264</link>
		<dc:creator>the_stenographer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2006 23:42:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5264</guid>
		<description>What kind of right minded advertisers would advertise with the Wasington (gay) Blade? 

And even more, dont let them give you any incentives to make the idea of doing an interview with them more appealing. Next thing you know, they could be offering you a free trip for two to the Bahamas with the cast of queer eye for the straight guy. I agree with my cohort the Dog--stay AWAY!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What kind of right minded advertisers would advertise with the Wasington (gay) Blade? </p>
<p>And even more, dont let them give you any incentives to make the idea of doing an interview with them more appealing. Next thing you know, they could be offering you a free trip for two to the Bahamas with the cast of queer eye for the straight guy. I agree with my cohort the Dog&#8211;stay AWAY!</p>
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		<title>By: James Young</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5263</link>
		<dc:creator>James Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2006 23:38:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5263</guid>
		<description>"one of the best-run, most professional gay publications in the country"

Understand the paradigm.  I don't know what I would do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;one of the best-run, most professional gay publications in the country&#8221;</p>
<p>Understand the paradigm.  I don&#8217;t know what I would do.</p>
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		<title>By: Rick Sincere</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5261</link>
		<dc:creator>Rick Sincere</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2006 23:25:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5261</guid>
		<description>The Washington Blade is one of the best-run, most professional gay publications in the country.  It is a quality newspaper.   There is no reason to fear association with it.  It often runs to more than 60 pages and is heavy with advertising -- and advertisers know what kind of publications are worth utilizing to reach their customers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Washington Blade is one of the best-run, most professional gay publications in the country.  It is a quality newspaper.   There is no reason to fear association with it.  It often runs to more than 60 pages and is heavy with advertising &#8212; and advertisers know what kind of publications are worth utilizing to reach their customers.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5258</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2006 22:54:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bvbl.net/index.php/2006/12/18/should-i-or-shouldnt-i/#comment-5258</guid>
		<description>I agree with The Dog.  Stay away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with The Dog.  Stay away.</p>
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